Continued: Caroline the Escort Girl

Continued: Caroline the Escort Girl

The results of the poll clearly state that the most popular story line on this site is my my work as a professional escort girl. I am not really surprised.

You remember how it all started? I was just curious about the scene, about why men use escort girls and about whether or not there is a market for paid sex in second life. Hence I decided at the time to under cover as an escort girl to get first hand experience and to write about it.

Read here how it all started: Going under cover as an escort girl. Oy my god this was in may 2013. Time flies!

It did not stop there. I actually found a club to work at and step by step I got drawn into it. I experienced that it is actually a very exciting even arousing way of living my Second life. Instead of investigating the seamier side of Second Life I became part of it. I became a professional prostitute and a good one I can proudly say.

Hence the reason it doesn’t come as big surprise, when my readers prefer those stories. It is what I really am in Second Life: a professional sex worker, a whore, a prostitude. It is authentic. It is done with passion and dedication, yet more fun to read than any other story I might come up with.

Hey, but good news for those who did vote for adventures on Gor. I will get into that again. Gor did win the second place in the poll. I am actually perplexed that NOBODY is interested in the Second Life version of the famous musical Mamma Mia. By the way, I am staring in the beach scene. Anyway I won’t bore you with that, the results of the poll clearly state I would if I go on about that.

From my life as an escort:

I am sure most of you remember Del Fargis. Del actually has a bit of a crush on me. Maybe even a major one. The other day we were chatting about my job.

He suddenly said with a frustrated: „You know if I could afford that, I would be with you all the time but 3.000 Linden is quite a lot. I jokingly responded: „Friends get discounts, most only pay 2.000 Linden for a good hour with a lot of sexy fun.

I was very surprised when I saw 2.000 Linden hitting my account as I always believed he is the kind of guy who would never pay for sex. Then he said: But I will wait until you need it too, until you will enjoy it and even climaxing real.“

I sighed and responded: „Del, serving sexual pleasure for money actually is what turns me on, its the whole point actually.“

„Ok I want you now then!“

All right, I thought, I will show you how good I am at this. You will come back for more of the same. I went upstairs, flashed my bed room in a very sexy red light, prepared the bed with the Tenderlove poseball and dressed in my favorite lingerie.

Question to you my readers: What do you think about having sex for moeny with old friends too? PLease leave your thoughts in the comment section!

See how it went:

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COMMENTS

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    Dear Caroline,
    To my opinion, sex with my old friends is absolutely the best thing, simply because they know me, I know them and we can make the best of it. Now introducing the money can be a game, if it is a turn-on, then this is just about having fun. For me this is the case, a real turn-on, and I did have sex with a few of my old friends and …. Well it was good. As long as it is not a risk for the friendship then it is good.
    Kiss
    Cathy

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    Sarah 10 months

    Hi,

    I was wondering, how can you be sure that the person on the other end of your escapades is an adult, meaning someone who is at least 18 years old? The process of verifying an account on Second Life is not that difficult, so it would not be too difficult for a teenager to pretend to be an adult. As someone who works in children’s rights and who works a lot on the prevention of child abuse in new technologies, it’s always been a mystery for me how people can be sure that they are not crossing an illegal line. I’m saying illegal because the probability that sexual activity with a minor is illegal in your country of residence is high.

    Thanks!

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      Hi Sarah

      very good point you bring up here.

      For me its simple: If they have credit card details on file, the risk of crossing this line is minimal. Minors do not use credit cards. In addition I chat with my clients before going into action. I think I can distinguish between a kid and and adult by talking to them 🙂

      Carol

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        Sarah 10 months

        Thank you for your response. It is very common for minors to use their parents credit cards so this is not a full proof way to determine if someone is a minor or not. I have also read some of your posts and I know that you also engage in rape role play with partners with whom you have little conversation. It can also be very difficult to differentiate a 16-17 year old with an adult.

        As I’ve said before, as a lawyer who works in children’s rights, and especially fighting child abuse and sexual exploitation, I can only tell you that whatever the actions of the minor, a minor cannot be seen as responsible for his or her abuse or exploitation by someone else. The Internet’s anonymity seems to give people a pass at irresponsible behaviour, because they won’t get caught or because the possibility of wrong doing is slight, but a risk of 0 is the only thing that should be okay.

        Thank you though for your honesty!

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          Sarah,

          you as the expert in the field, what measures would you suggest in a place like Second Life, to prevent sexual engagement with minors?

          And where should we draw the line?

          In many countries (i.e. Germany) the age of consent is 14. How to deal with the fact that the law actually allows “minors” to engage in sexual activities, even guarantees sexual self-determination as a constitutional right as of the age of 14 (always assuming consent of course).

          You mentioned a 16-17 year old. Now lets be honest. How many 16-17 year old virgins do you know in this modern world?

          Child abuse and sexual exploitation is wrong. But so is denying someone his/her right of sexual self-determination just because of certain old fashioned moral standards or silly religious believes.

          Last but certainly not least: Is engaging on pixel sex actually a sexual activity by that matter?

          Carol

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            Sarah 9 months

            Hi,

            I will try to answer all your questions. I think Linden Labs does their best at providing measures to limit access to explicit content to minors, the rest is up to the consumer. The best would be to close all “adult” activities, they don’t do it because it would be financial suicide.

            As I said before, I would draw the line at not being 100% sure that the person I’m interacting with is not a minor. For example, I would want to see the person on Skype or something, and make sure that what I see is 100% adult. If the person looks under 25-27, I would say no. Not that I actually engage in virtual sexual interaction, but let’s just say.

            Age of consent is not about when a minor can have sexual interaction with an adult. For example, a 15 year old girl may be “allowed” to have sexual relationships, but if a 45 year old man engages in a sexual interaction with her, it would be considered statutory rape. If my quick research on Germany’s statutory rape laws are correct, the age of consent works if the oldest in the “relationship” is not over 21. So my argument would be correct.

            Yes I mention 16-17 year olds. The point is not are they virgins or not. In a case of statutory rape, the argument that the minor was not a virgin prior to the abuse would not change anything to the case. The problem is not initiating a minor to sexual activity, it is breaking national and international laws that 99% of our countries have signed and ratified.

            As for allowing a person to their sexual determination, again, that is not the point. A 16 year old can, in most countries, engage with consent with another minor, who would also consent, and make all the discoveries they want. But it is illegal for adults (sometimes over 21, sometimes it’s a minimum age difference of 4 years, it depends) to do so. It has nothing to do with self discovery, it has to do with LAW, what is LEGAL, and what is ethically right.

            More so, the sexual development of a 16 year old is not the same as the sexual activity one can have when older. I have mentioned the rape role play in Second Life. Denying that role playing rape has a different impact on the development of a 16 year old compared to the effect it can have on a 35 year old adult is wrong. I’m not saying that minors are not intelligent beings, not at all, I usually find them brighter than most adults I know, but most of them are still very vulnerable to outside input. The age “18” is somewhat arbitrary, meaning that at 17 years and 364 days, a person is not minutes away from being impervious to outside influences, but we have decided, and I say we because it’s mostly us “Western” countries, to choose this age of 18 as the age when a person changes from being a minor with particular needs and rights, to an adult.

            Your last question is actually a very good one, and one of the reasons why I read your blog. National and international laws have not caught up on all the changes new technologies are creating. If you read the Convention on the Rights of the Child, it is very based in the 80’s reality. A lot of people, like me, are doing research on violence against children and sexual exploitation or abuse of children online, and we are trying to understand where the line should be drawn, as you say. It is a very difficult question to answer, and as I tried to say in all my comments, right now it’s mostly a personal matter and a personal ethical choice. The matter is, does the physical body has to be involved for the act to be considered child abuse? So I ask then, if I take a 45 year old woman, who engages in sexual make beliefs on the phone with a 13 year old boy, and she asks him to touch himself or to describe what he’s doing etc., again, in most countries, that would be considered wrong, even if their bodies have never touched. So is pixel sex the internet equivalent of my example? Again, laws need to caught up with the 21st century and for now, we all have to make our own decisions.

            I hope I was able to answer all your questions.

            Thanks!

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            Here a (bad) translation abou the leagl situation in Germany:

            Criminal law protects the sexual self-determination of children and adolescents with a graded system: Sexual acts against children under 14 years are all prohibited and penalized. The concept of sexual act requires not that it comes to sexual intercourse – so, for example, kiss with tongue would be enough.

            In adolescents 14-16 and consensual sex is punishable if the offender is older than 21 and “exploiting the lack of ability of the victim of sexual self-determination”. The age difference is to ensure that only cases of “imbalance in power” are captured and not typical for young people relations.

            For young people aged between 16 and 18 of legislators is believe that they can make their own decisions about sexual contacts. Therefore, sexual acts are only punishable if the perpetrators they perpetrated “by exploiting a predicament.” Commentary to the Criminal Code suggest that this would be the case in the emergency of drug addicts; but not however to win an election as top model.

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    Syo Emerald 9 months

    Many people will think: “Ah, hot pictures!”
    And then there is me….I just think what a beautiful apartment you have there.
    How about a blog entry presenting us how you live in Second Life. How big your place is and how you decorated it (what furniture brand, how many of your furniture has an adult menu and what style you prefer..and so on).

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      Syo

      more than happy to show you the place one day. It is on one of the bigger island in the northwest of the blake sea. I share it with Toni und Auri, the later did most of the decoration upstairs (the room on the pics), whilst I did the living room and kitchen downstairs. Downhill on the beach there is the moor for my little famous Loonetta.

      Carol

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    Sarah 9 months

    I understand you are trying to defend yourself, but I’m not trying to attack you, and what you translated here doesn’t disprove what I said. As I’m trying to say, and this will be my last comment, we all make our own choices. My goal was mainly to understand what was a consumer’s sense of responsibility (in this case, yours) towards this problem. I have my answer.

    Thanks!

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      Sarah

      I am not defending myself, nor did I feel attacked in any form. I just have a slightly different, more liberal perspective about the subject matter.

      And most importantly: Thank you for the very thoughtful and elaborate contribution to the discussion.

      Carol

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