Guys this is a girls post. Move on to another article, this will bore you. Try the sports section or something. Girls read on (especially but not limited to those new to sex in Second Life) and lets discuss the subject matter!
Yesterday I was contacted by one of my readers. I can not tell you what her name is nor can I show you picks as I, as always, respect her request for privacy – yet another Mrs.X.
She is a very experienced Second Life resident. If I remember it right, the avatar is about 10 years old and she must have seen it all. But there is one thing she has been neglecting all those years: Sex! The reason being is, that she has in real life a very committed relationship and she felt it would be cheating on her partner if she was having slex (short for second life sex).
However, things changed a bit. She recently was talking to her partner about the subject and to her surprise he has no issues with her exploring the naughty side of Second Life as long as it doesn’t go any further or getting any serious. He even suggested she should take money for it.
Hurray, „card blanche“ from significant other! That’s what I call a cool relationship.
Here a question to my readers: Do you think having slex whilst being in a RL realtionship is cheating? Please leave your opinion in the comments below!
However, you want to know what for she actually contacted me? Here is her question:
„When I want to have sex in Second Life, do I need to buy a vagina?“
At first I couldn’t help but laughing about this. Then I thought about it and here is my take on it :
I don´t think it is necessary or even mandatory for a woman to have attached genitals. Most men know where the thing is supposed to be, and lets face it: Once a guy got you out of your clothes and ready to move on, he will not come up with a line like: „ Hey wait, we can’t do it, you have no pussy attached“. Right or wrong?
However, it does actually make a difference visually. Lets have a closer look at this. Here below you see me posing without a pussy attached. Compare it to the main picture above.
I am sure you appreciate the difference. The one I recommended to her is the one I am using on all my (female) avatars (the one in the pic).
Its from VAW – Virtual Art Works, a designer who specializes on adult animations and genitals. You might have guessed, it is one of our sponsors. I am using this product myself since about two years.
The reason is simple: Its affordable (I bought 4!) and looks realistic(like most of the stuff they have in their shop and on marketplace). This vagina actually comes with some animations included, such as letting others lick and finger your pussy, to be honest I don’t use that feature much. More important is the hud, which lets you customize colour, pubic hair, piercing and with one click its either in normal state or opened/aroused.
Here is were you can get it:
Finally yet another question to my readers: What would have been YOUR answer to Mrs. X question:
When I want to have sex in Second Life, do I need to buy a vagina?
Guys may comment too, I know you were reading it anyway!