This one is for the ladies! Guys move on, read my other articles or watch my porn videos. Nothing for you to see here. Just kidding guys, You can read this of course and even comment on it. Howver you might find it less interesting. For you ladies out there: You can help me shaping a male escort the way you want him.
Nate is an old friend of mine. I met him when he was a noob about two years ago. I ca not remember much of our possibly brief encounters, only that we went out to Tomuli’s Restaurant on Corsica for a dance and some motorbike riding. Nothing naughty I belive. Well, maybe a blow job.
Howver I have not seen him for a long time until he recently, wehn I sat in Franks Elite Jazz Club and recieved an IM from him. He had a particular question:
What does it take to become a good callboy?
I invited him over to my place. In order to really give advise, I need to see him and do a little „status quo audit“.
Lets start with his looks. Appearance is important, not only for guys. First impressions count and often decide about yes or no. Those of you on tinder know exactly what I mean. Especially in Second life, where free sex is available in abundance, one who wants to make it into the sex business, must make a difference in that matter.
Here is what I got to see:
Yes not bad looking. Decent skin, realistic shape and a choice of good quality formal cloth. Handsome? Yes I think so. But outstanding? No, he needs a bit of work done. I believe, a mesh body, mesh hands, realistic eyes are kind mandatory.
Ladies, what do you think? What are you suggesting my friend Nate has to do about his looks for him to be attractive enough to be considered for paid sex?
But whats there to see without cloth. So I asked him to take his cloth off:
Ok, not to bad either. Don’t know about you, ladies, but I personally don’t like those schwarzeneggerised bodies nor oversized penises. In this discipline Nate passed the audit.
What do you think?
But lets get to the most important part. How good his he in bed. Only one way to find out really: I have to sleep with him. Preferably without feeling under the pressure that he is actually going through an exam.
The way I did that? Well we were talking about the importance of realistic and smooth animations. Those old school sex huds with poses from 10 years ago and „jump around transitions“ between animations, just don’t do it, if you want to provide an experience worth being paid for.
„I am using Tenderlove, because of the realistic transitions between animations, come let me show you how that works“, I said and ask him to follow me in the bedroom upstairs.
I switch my red lights on and we did test some cuddling poses. Of course, it did not take long from laying naked on the bed testing animations, to actually have sex. It was good actually, he is a good lover. However there is room for improvement.
First of all he needs to learn the mechanics of emoting properly. You know those little rules, the role play community has kind established, such as emoting is done in third person, never emote what your partner does or feels, leave room for answering the emote, do not do thought emotes and make sure you use the /me formatting command.
He did all of those incorrectly. To me that did not matter much, it was nice anyway. However if he want to become a professional, those skills need to be practiced and mastered.
Agreed ladies? Anything to add?
Next was the thing with the right angle. You know what I mean? Yes, the control of the penis for it to actually match its attempted destination. Well, stick your cock into the pussy, don’t screw the bed instead. Otherwise it will look like this:
This was supposed to be a blow job, actually.
He was using an excite penis, with apparently had only the options flaccid or erect, but nothing in-between. If that’s the case, he needs to get another one.
Ladies, any suggestions? Which on is your favorite? Which on should your future call boy get?
We also talked about ethics in the sex business. The code, so to speak. Most important rules:
Never stalked a client, wait until the client takes the initiative. However, you can sometimes text the client to remind them of you. Just make sure you have a nice contact story (rez day is a good one, or suggestions to visit a certain sim based on his likes and preferences). Just do not overdo it.
Never go to places where he tend to meet up with friends or communities he is into. Stay away from the clients regular environment. Be discrete!
Never expect anything from a client, other than the agreed payment. He is not your lover, but your client. He comes to you, BECAUSE its no strings, no obligations fun.
Ladies, want to add something here? What behavior would you expect from a callboy?
Last but not least:
Would you actually consider hiring a callboy?
You would , if….., or is it an absolute nogo for you? If yes, what would you be prepared to pay for the experience and what would you expect from it?