In my retro-perspective post I actually announced that in 2017 I will be posting a lot less about my activities as a call girl in Second Life. The main reason being is that I have embarked on another business. I am promoting Second Life porn with a tube site similar to naughty machinima. This is actually a serious business. It requires dedication, time and hard work to get it going. It has also a lot bigger earning potential than working as a call girl.
However I will still be doing a bit of escorting. Not the same way I did 2016 though. There are two type of clients I will still serve.
Today’s post is a compilation of some stuff that happened in the course of the week in no particular order. Non of them was enough for an individual post, nevertheless keep reading its quite interesting anyway.
This one is for the ladies! Guys move on, read my other articles or watch my porn videos. Nothing for you to see here. Just kidding guys, You can read this of course and even comment on it. Howver you might find it less interesting. For you ladies out there: You can help me shaping a male escort the way you want him.
Nate is an old friend of mine. I met him when he was a noob about two years ago. I ca not remember much of our possibly brief encounters, only that we went out to Tomuli’s Restaurant on Corsica for a dance and some motorbike riding. Nothing naughty I belive. Well, maybe a blow job.
Howver I have not seen him for a long time until he recently, wehn I sat in Franks Elite Jazz Club and recieved an IM from him. He had a particular question:
What does it take to become a good callboy?
I invited him over to my place. In order to really give advise, I need to see him and do a little „status quo audit“.
Lets start with his looks. Appearance is important, not only for guys. First impressions count and often decide about yes or no. Those of you on tinder know exactly what I mean. Especially in Second life, where free sex is available in abundance, one who wants to make it into the sex business, must make a difference in that matter.
Here is what I got to see:
Yes not bad looking. Decent skin, realistic shape and a choice of good quality formal cloth. Handsome? Yes I think so. But outstanding? No, he needs a bit of work done. I believe, a mesh body, mesh hands, realistic eyes are kind mandatory.
Ladies, what do you think? What are you suggesting my friend Nate has to do about his looks for him to be attractive enough to be considered for paid sex?
But whats there to see without cloth. So I asked him to take his cloth off:
Ok, not to bad either. Don’t know about you, ladies, but I personally don’t like those schwarzeneggerised bodies nor oversized penises. In this discipline Nate passed the audit.
What do you think?
But lets get to the most important part. How good his he in bed. Only one way to find out really: I have to sleep with him. Preferably without feeling under the pressure that he is actually going through an exam.
The way I did that? Well we were talking about the importance of realistic and smooth animations. Those old school sex huds with poses from 10 years ago and „jump around transitions“ between animations, just don’t do it, if you want to provide an experience worth being paid for.
„I am using Tenderlove, because of the realistic transitions between animations, come let me show you how that works“, I said and ask him to follow me in the bedroom upstairs.
I switch my red lights on and we did test some cuddling poses. Of course, it did not take long from laying naked on the bed testing animations, to actually have sex. It was good actually, he is a good lover. However there is room for improvement.
First of all he needs to learn the mechanics of emoting properly. You know those little rules, the role play community has kind established, such as emoting is done in third person, never emote what your partner does or feels, leave room for answering the emote, do not do thought emotes and make sure you use the /me formatting command.
He did all of those incorrectly. To me that did not matter much, it was nice anyway. However if he want to become a professional, those skills need to be practiced and mastered.
Agreed ladies? Anything to add?
Next was the thing with the right angle. You know what I mean? Yes, the control of the penis for it to actually match its attempted destination. Well, stick your cock into the pussy, don’t screw the bed instead. Otherwise it will look like this:
This was supposed to be a blow job, actually.
He was using an excite penis, with apparently had only the options flaccid or erect, but nothing in-between. If that’s the case, he needs to get another one.
Ladies, any suggestions? Which on is your favorite? Which on should your future call boy get?
We also talked about ethics in the sex business. The code, so to speak. Most important rules:
Never stalked a client, wait until the client takes the initiative. However, you can sometimes text the client to remind them of you. Just make sure you have a nice contact story (rez day is a good one, or suggestions to visit a certain sim based on his likes and preferences). Just do not overdo it.
Never go to places where he tend to meet up with friends or communities he is into. Stay away from the clients regular environment. Be discrete!
Never expect anything from a client, other than the agreed payment. He is not your lover, but your client. He comes to you, BECAUSE its no strings, no obligations fun.
Ladies, want to add something here? What behavior would you expect from a callboy?
Last but not least:
Would you actually consider hiring a callboy?
You would , if….., or is it an absolute nogo for you? If yes, what would you be prepared to pay for the experience and what would you expect from it?
Please comment and help me shaping Nate into the perfect callboy!
Yesterday I met Tom. Actually his name isn’t Tom, but as I can not reveal his identity I have chosen to call him Tom for this article. The reason for this is the fact that he is a well known married successful businessman in Second Life. There is actually a great story behind this, and I feel really sad that I can not share it with you at all. Hence he will always be the mysterious man in my Second Life Adventures. The one who shall not be named!
Anyway, Tom is one of my few regulars who were invited to join my flat rate program. I wrote about that before here: Flat rate for escort services. Actually after a “test drive”, but that is another story.
Yesterday he took me out dancing at a great place I have not known of before. It is a dance club in a massive piano.
Sex wasn’t on his to do list this time. Tom simply enjoys my company. A good intelligent talk, dancing, fun, that sort of thing.
However, a little later the conversation moved towards sex anyway. I guess that doesn’t come as a surprise to you. He told me about this fantasy of his, being on a public dance floor, moving with his dance partner in a darker area, lift her skirt a little, take his cock out of his pants sliding into her prepared wet pussy from behind, making love in the rhythm of the dance without anybody around realizing what is going on. Slowly, quietly, discreetly moving towards climax having a difficult time to hide the arousal and increasing excitement, suppressing any moans or facial expressions of fervor.
I found the idea tempting, exciting. Plus I was wearing my black mini-dress with nothing under it. As if I had known, that this is going to happen. We danced quite some time in slow motion to music from „Martini in the Morning“, me massaging his hard cock with my thighs until he finally penetrated me slowly and continued to move in the rhythm of the music (I know this will turn on Cathy).
After a while we were so horny and excited that we were not able to finish it there and then. We took the TP-Taxi and went to his place. Just arriving he pulled me on his bed, took me in desperate need, fucking me twice, passionate and wild until he laid beside me exhausted but relaxed, released, empty.
This one will go on the list of my top ten sex adventures.
Probably most of my female married readers are now a bit uneasy, are you not? Yes, could be YOUR husband. What would you do if you found out your husband had some sort of affair with a well known escort girl?
Tell me in the comments!
As usual I brought you some pics of the encounter. Not very good ones though, as I was trying to shoot them in a way, that his face can not be seen, so he may not be identified.
Sometimes (but very rarely) readers of this blog actually contact me In-World for various reasons. The most common reasons (in this order):
Pay me for sex
Pay me for sex lessons
Noobs seeking advise on Second Life
To ask where I buy my outfits
Fans who want to get to know me
Feed back on the blog
Bitch about how immoral and indecent I am
Rescue my soul from eternal damnation (seriously)
I actually don’t mind any of that. In fact I am surprised that it doesn’t happen more often, bearing in mind this blog has had more than half a million readers so far. The good thing about not having too many contacting me is, that I can easily respond to each and every one of them. Which is what I do.
Recently I got an IM from Sabina. Sabina and her friend Esti are regular readers of Second Life Adventures. They stated that explicitly. I invited both of them over to my place in the Blake Sea when Sabina said she would like to have advise on a particular subject: How to get started as an escort girl in Second Life.
It wasn’t for her actually. It was Esti who really wanted to give it a go.
First I asked her for her motivation. Why would she want to become an escort girl. The reason for this question is simple: If its just the money which motivates you, my advise would be: Try something else. The money you will make is not worth wasting your online time. You can do better things in Second Life than having some guys using your avatar for pixel porn in exchange for a couple of Linden.
It wasn’t just the money for Esti. Esti is an avid and experienced role player. She tried all sorts of RPG (Role Play Games) in Second Life and became very good at it. A fact I should find out little later this day.
„I could do what I enjoy most in Second Life and make some money at the same time“, she stated. A good start I thought and explained her the most important first steps to get started as an escort girl.
Create an attractive avatar
Men are visual. Full stop. If you want them to desire you that much that they are prepared to pay for it. It is essential to look sexy. Mesh body, hands and feet are mandatory. Decide on a „type“ and build a character with an own unique style and stick to it. Avoid unrealistic proportions such as monster tits. The guys are looking for a woman, not a cow!
Same goes for your wardrobe. Make sure you have several relevant outfits saved up for easy change. To have several sexy lingerie outfits is an obvious one, but also have something classy and elegant in your outfits in case he wants to take you out. Use your imagination and pay attention to details. Nails, different hairstyles to fit the occasions and jewelery can make a huge difference.
Learn how to emote properly
This one is easy for Esti but if you are not familiar with the basic rules of proper emoting you are setting yourself up for failure in the escort business. Find the basics here: Emotes (in case you want lessons on that, I offer private teaching on sex in Second Life).
Prepare a good rate card
This is a simple notecard explaining what you, what the can expect from you. And of course how much you charge. State your limits on this card along with your online times, time zone and ideally some pictures of your avatar. Needless to say what type of pictures we are talking about. If you are not good at taking pictures, seek help from professionals. There are plenty of really good photographers in Second Life.
Use your profile for advertising your services
This is a tricky one. Maybe you do not want everybody or your friends to know what you do. Understandable, it might be a bit uncomfortable to tell everybody that you are now a prostitute (to call it by what it is).
However, your profile is your best advertising space. When you walk into a crowded place, as a really attractive woman, be assured that within seconds several people will be reading your profile. For that reason take the time to get it right. Write something enticing, something that makes them curious and don’t forget a call to action. Maybe something like:
“If you want to know more, don’t be shy, simply IM me!”
Also bear in mind, that club managers and hostesses also do read profiles. Hence don’t overdo it, don’t use explicit language or nude pictures in your profile.
Apply for a job at a busy escort club
The easiest way to find your first customers, is simply working at a busy escort club. To find them, use the search facility and type in “escort” or “sex”. You will get a list of clubs in the order of the traffic number they receive. Visit them and see which one is right for you. Then apply. You might actually apply at more than one club.
I did the same thing. I used to work at the Magic Angels club when it still was an escort club (its a music venue today). Yes, I had to give a part of my income to the club (usually 20%). On the other hand the club owner finances the place and advertises it.
Once you have regulars, and your own place where you can take clients too, you can work on your own. Until then working for a busy gentleman’s club is a much easier start into your new profession.
Buy at least one quality sex hud
There are plenty of sex huds available with different specialties and quality. Try them before you decide. My favorite one is “TenderLove”.
I stated that one to Esti and Sabina. They inquired why is that, what is special about it. I smiled cheekily and said: “I will show you, follow me upstairs”. Once we received the bedroom, I said: “Ok here is the work place, who wants to get naked?”
Esti opted for that instantly. We sat on the Tenderlove balls but instead of just technically going through it. I actually stated to touch her with emotes. She responded. Very sensual and well written she emoted in responds to my touch. Suddenly we no longer were discussing the subject matter, but started to get drawn into erotic play, immersing into sensual dialog whilst watching those very smooth and realistic animations arousing both of us.
In short: We had sex! Sabina watched us and obviously liked it very much herself. Later on a friend of mine was invited to watch as well and finally to participate. What a sexy finish to a consulting session.
Question to my readers:
Did you ever consider to try the life of a escort girl in Second Life? If so, what would be your motivation? Have you already done it? If so would you like to add something to the above? Please use the comment feature, I love feed back and comments!
hen I logged in today, I felt a bit bored. None of closer friends were online, nor any of my regular clients. So I decided to do some sim-hoping and see what I might encounter. First stop: the keyhole club.
I was wearing a casual outfit, nothing too sexy as I wasn’t really „at work“. However it did not take very long and a good looking and well dressed guy approached me. He inquired if I am here often and if I am here to „hook up“. I explained I am just looking whats up toady and that I am a professional.
I had no intention to pursue business at the club, as its actually not allowed there to solicit business as an escort girl. In fact I was actually checking my adverts there for my thrixxx affiliate program.
To my surprise he asked for the price and if I am available. He booked me there and then. Quickly I went home to prepare everything. As this proposal caught me by surprise, I had nothing ready. Hence I placed the tenderlove poseball, put some red lights on and slipped into sexy lingerie.
And we did it. I felt this one might become a regular hence I did my best to please him. See pictures below for reference.
After we finished we did have a good talk and amongst other things I asked him: „Why do you actually enjoy escort girls or do you even prefer them?”
To my surprise he answered, it is difficult to find women, interested in sex in Second Life. He tried at several of the places which advertise „free sex“, but could not get anywhere. I think his approach to the girls might have been a bit too direct. You know what I mean. First line would be „hello how are you“, and second line „interested in Sex“?
It doesn’t work that way!
Maybe some of my readers would like to share, how it actually does work. Girls, what approach works on you? Do you do it sometimes at the free sex places? If so , what does it take to excite you and to do it there and then? Guys, you want to share some tricks and tipps?
Tomorrow he will be online again and already kinda reserved some time with me. I guess I will see him more often now, as not only I am available, easy to approach but also he enjoyed very much being with me.
Maybe one day, when Cathy is online. I will arrange to fulfill one of his fantasies: Watching two girls having fun and join in later to fuck with both.
The results of the poll clearly state that the most popular story line on this site is my my work as a professional escort girl. I am not really surprised.
You remember how it all started? I was just curious about the scene, about why men use escort girls and about whether or not there is a market for paid sex in second life. Hence I decided at the time to under cover as an escort girl to get first hand experience and to write about it.
It did not stop there. I actually found a club to work at and step by step I got drawn into it. I experienced that it is actually a very exciting even arousing way of living my Second life. Instead of investigating the seamier side of Second Life I became part of it. I became a professional prostitute and a good one I can proudly say.
Hence the reason it doesn’t come as big surprise, when my readers prefer those stories. It is what I really am in Second Life: a professional sex worker, a whore, a prostitude. It is authentic. It is done with passion and dedication, yet more fun to read than any other story I might come up with.
Hey, but good news for those who did vote for adventures on Gor. I will get into that again. Gor did win the second place in the poll. I am actually perplexed that NOBODY is interested in the Second Life version of the famous musical Mamma Mia. By the way, I am staring in the beach scene. Anyway I won’t bore you with that, the results of the poll clearly state I would if I go on about that.
From my life as an escort:
I am sure most of you remember Del Fargis. Del actually has a bit of a crush on me. Maybe even a major one. The other day we were chatting about my job.
He suddenly said with a frustrated: „You know if I could afford that, I would be with you all the time but 3.000 Linden is quite a lot. I jokingly responded: „Friends get discounts, most only pay 2.000 Linden for a good hour with a lot of sexy fun.
I was very surprised when I saw 2.000 Linden hitting my account as I always believed he is the kind of guy who would never pay for sex. Then he said: But I will wait until you need it too, until you will enjoy it and even climaxing real.“
I sighed and responded: „Del, serving sexual pleasure for money actually is what turns me on, its the whole point actually.“
„Ok I want you now then!“
All right, I thought, I will show you how good I am at this. You will come back for more of the same. I went upstairs, flashed my bed room in a very sexy red light, prepared the bed with the Tenderlove poseball and dressed in my favorite lingerie.
Question to you my readers: What do you think about having sex for moeny with old friends too? PLease leave your thoughts in the comment section!
A fun way of reading this blog: Start with the guides in the main navigation, then go in the archives to the oldest post and read your way from my past till today. That is how my latest client does it: Mr Saint (His name). He has actually not gotten to the latest posts yet. I think he is stuck somewhere between Magic Angels and the Mansion.
It took him a while to actually find me In-World because my name „Caroline Resident“ is not my user name but my displayed name. My user name is actually „carolinestravels“. For those who want to say hello, search for the user name not the display name.
My new friend and backwards reader of the blog, not only is a fan of my writings but also has ever since this fantasy to have sex with me, after reading about me working as an escort girl. However as he is not up to date with what I am currently doing In-World, he was not sure if I am available for it and he was not sure whether or not it is appropriate to actually approach me. Hence nothing rally happened other than a few friendly chats in IM about Second Life in general and bloodlines in particular.
That was about to change.
Yesterday Saint did send me another friendly „how are you“. „I was hoping to meet one of my regular clients but he apparently is not on at the moment“, I said.
„Oh, what services do you offer?“He inquired. It was then, when I realized that he doesn’t actually know, that I am still in the sex trade. I told him what I am doing and he said: „When I have more Linden again I will definitely „test drive“ you“.
I told him with tongue in cheek: „You can always buy some Linden with your credit card“. I continued: „You know my VIP package includes taking you to my luxury home in the blake sea, and using the best sex animations available in Second Life. But hey, it is ok if you need to budget, .. maybe next time“
„Not so fast, now you got me interested“, he answered. It did not take him long to buy himself the Lindens he needed to hire me. I invited him over to my villa on the shores of the blake sea. He paid me for half an hour first with the option to upgrade if he really likes it.
I am sure you guessed it! He did enjoy himself very well of course, despite of some challenges with the use of camera. He stayed with me more than an hour and paid me a generous tip on top of my hourly rate of 3.000 Linden.
Afterwards he confessed, that he always wanted this but did not dare to ask.
What do you learn from this, dear reader?
1. Yes it is absolutely appropriate to say hello In-World. I am always open for a chat with my fans. Just say hello, If I am busy I tell you and we talk another time, deal?
2. Yes, it is absolutely appropriate to approach me for hiring my services as an escort girl. Don’t be shy! Simply ask me if I am available for some fun.
3. Yes, this is a self-promotional post :-). Contact me Inworld if you want to have som steamy fun with me. My Inworld user name is carolinestravels or simply leave a comment hereunder
There seem to be quite a few guys in Second Life, who do have that fantasy of having sex with a teenager. A delicate subject I know and age play is actually not allowed in Second Life.
Having said that, 18 years young avis are allowed in sex play and that still counts as a teenager. I tested it out some time ago how potential clients react to that. On the street I did have some success. Yet I decided to explore that niche a bit deeper. I actually invested a bit of money in my teen girl look, including a mesh body. The result is the main picture of this post. Does look like a young adult to me. What age she might be in the fantasy of a client might be a different story.
It surprised me that some of my regulars have that same fantasy. They just never dared to tell me. Even a friend of mine who never actually hired me before was prepared to pay me as a teenage whore – twice. Another regular actually paid me douple the usual rate, just because of this new beautiful young looking avatar. This week I made almost 10.000 LD in a few hours as a teenage whore.
I am not sure yet how to actually reach this clientele. Maybe I join some of the relevant groups and see how it goes. Another idea would be setting up such a group myself. There are also club specialized on the matter. I will think of something and explore that site of the business.
The only thing I have to be careful about is discretion. Those guys do not want to be identified for obvious reasons. Therefore I can only show you pics of this weeks encounters where you can not see the clients face nor can I mention any names.
Oh , and of course, you who is reading this post and gets excited or curious to try. Don’t be shy get in touch (user name: carolinestravels)!
Feel free to discuss the topic here, whatever your view is on it.
The evening when I had three in a row. In fact the third one had to wait until I finish number two. I was a busy little girl. If this would have been I would not be able to walk for week:
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